June 2012
While reading this New York Times article about Amanda Palmer’s Kickstarter campaign, this sentence, spoken by former music executive Greg Scholl, made me so fucking crazy. The underlying romantic and snobby sentiment here is that Cobain was a “real” artist who wouldn’t have subjected himself to such humiliations.1
Well, actually, I’d argue that, aside from his substance abuse and mental and physical health issues, Cobain’s true humiliation was his rapid, inhuman fame — made possible only by the machinery of the record industry. (This isn’t to say that Cobain didn’t want to be a rock star. I think in a way he did, but didn’t know how to handle getting his wish.) It was a big part of what killed him. In his suicide note, he expressed how much he felt detached from rock and roll, from the fans, from the “punk rock 101…independence and the embracement of your community.” The thing had gotten too big, too fast. He quotes Neil Young’s “better to burn out than to fade away” line at the end of his note.
I wonder what if the fates had aligned to let him “burn slow” instead.
When asked how it felt to be handed a million dollars by her fans, this was Palmer’s response:
I have over $1 million of capital to manufacture a record that nobody’s heard. To me, that makes that entire pile of money look like a mountain of faith that my fans have in me, because they’re already on board with my music, my philosophy, my career. They’re on Team Amanda. That’s the kind of thing that a new artist can never do.
As Yancey Strickler says, it’s not about fame:
Fame is a lot of people caring about you a little. What Amanda has is something different. It’s a few people caring about her a lot.
What I see in Amanda Palmer’s model is a very human, a very healthy, a very slow and steady rise. A kind of antithesis to Nirvana’s rapid stardom. Who knows if it’s sustainable (when asked, Palmer admitted, “I haven’t made any music all month. I’ve been working on my Kickstarter.”), but it’s not an anomaly, it’s nothing to sneer at, and it’s definitely something worth stealing from.
Granted, Scholl might just be saying that Cobain didn’t have the drive or the will to engage in such a way. Either way, you know people are out there saying, “Well, John Lennon didn’t need a fucking Kickstarter,” or whatever. ↩
thats all i fucking wanted
that’s like not finding steak in Texas
when an artist wants to show you their art
or a writer wants you to read what they’ve written
it’s quite often an expression of trust
because a poem or a story or a painting are often things that come from the heart
little pieces of the artists themselves
and if they’re willing to share it with you
you should appreciate it
This.
May 2012
Politics aside, this book is impossible for anyone who demands things like coherency, believable plots, and interesting dialogue from their novels to get through. If you’re not a reader who wants these things, and you also hate the vulnerable and weak, you’ve probably already given copies of this book to perfunctorily thankful relatives and friends.” —The Most Overrated Books of All Time (According to Me) (via bookriot)
My older kid got sorted into Hufflepuff on Pottermore. Just thought you should know.
When the shit’s goin’ down… make good art.
- My father: You know whatcha oughta do, is ...
- Me: get the duct tape out?
- My father: You know whatcha oughta do, is ...
- Me: not allow you to finish this sentence?
- My father: You know whatcha oughta do, is ...
- Me: slip you some Xanax?
- My father: You know whatcha oughta do, is ...
- Me: make a brilliant, sarcastic, biting remark which would heretofore disallow unsolicited opinions?
- My father: You know whatcha oughta do, is ...
- My father: spank those kids...
- My father: make'em play football, toughen 'em up a little...
- My father: stop lettin' that little one play with dolls, yer gonna make him light in the loafers...
- My father: getcha one o'them thar smartphones...
- My father: rub some dirt on it...
- My father: getcha a gun. But don't lock it up cuz that thar defeats the purpose goddamit...
- My father: You know whatcha oughta do, is ...
- My father: teach these kids how ta shoot...
- My father: listen to some Rush, learn ya somethin' 'bout the real world and how it works goddamn it, all ya listen to is this fancypants communist left wing liberal NPR and we all know THEIR motivation...
- My father: feed that little one some of that food the fancy doc says he's allergic to, he'll get used to it soon'nuff goddamit what doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger.
- My father: you oughta buy a house big 'nuff me and yer stepmom and yer brudder can come live in cuz thar ain't no goddamn jobs down here thanks to that goddamn moooslim president we got...
- Me: drunk until Sunday, or further notice.
My Rush Limbaugh - Acolyte dad and stepmom are coming next week to stay for a few days, see my husband’s naturalization ceremony. I see a lot of gin, perhaps a paper bag, and popsicles in my near future. At least the mister will be able to vote and can help me cancel out some family members’ votes.
Deep cleansing breaths. Ohhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm. Innn…. out….. innnn…. outttt….
(by simplysuzanne)
this happens every five minutes in TX
two lesbians witches get to raise a teenage girl
wasn’t this also the premise of Sabrina the Teenage Witch?
haha no they were her aunts
they weren’t lesbian aunts?
no, they were her moms sisters
ooohhhh I get it ok now. They were hot for other ladies, not each other. *facepalm* Can’t believe I didn’t see that before.
no they were straight they each had bfs
really? Hm. That’s what I get for missing half of the 90s. I did attend a state school, after all. *hic*
Dallas marathon is Dec. 9. Registration opens June 1. Is months long enough to train for a marathon, starting from ZERO?
two lesbians witches get to raise a teenage girl
wasn’t this also the premise of Sabrina the Teenage Witch?
haha no they were her aunts
they weren’t lesbian aunts?
no, they were her moms sisters
ooohhhh I get it ok now. They were hot for other ladies, not each other. *facepalm* Can’t believe I didn’t see that before.
two lesbians witches get to raise a teenage girl
wasn’t this also the premise of Sabrina the Teenage Witch?
haha no they were her aunts
they weren’t lesbian aunts?
Foster the People really seems to have a thing for shoes.
two lesbians witches get to raise a teenage girl
wasn’t this also the premise of Sabrina the Teenage Witch?
Boy does the internet like a list. And boy, does the bookish internet love a book list. Here’s a round-up of recent bookish lists that caught our attention. See previous installments here.
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At Tablet Hotels, A Reading List for Lovers of Travel
At Abe Books, 7…
My TBR is essssploding.






